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the world's most broad sea, than the ocean is also wide sky, wider than the sky but also the amount of the human center. The amount of how much a man's heart, there is much success in life. Not for his own amuse to fight, to fight, Quduo, remove the center of revenge and spite of the study, the natural - -

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※ Han Yang - -

people who live day just to do one day, anxious one day worries, do one day responsibilities; have to say one day signification and fulfilment. Conservation, and not withdrawn serious people, people without Unconventional lively, settled and not stiff people, lukewarm people and not frivolous, and not make people silence and reticent, civilized people do not follow blindly. Everyone is creating their own engineers. Conservation, is not fastening, but liberation. - -

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people should live Sound of Music. Not hypocritical, not pretended, straightforward, simply, this is true; the sympathy of others, to love pity, which is agreeable; spiritual communication and instrumentation, the integration of human and nature, this is the United States. The sublime taste of a man, a great amusement. - -

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success, 15% is the individual's genii and skills, when 85% lies in the technology and life skills. And the general public get along, in harmony to please, disburse consideration to adore other people's positions, so everybody feel essential, it has been nice secret. - -

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no hard rules as radius. Rules of the game because of the constraints, will resolve the outcome seems fair; vehicle rules for of the constraints, the road conveyance will prevails Exalted; trading rules for of the limitations, the two will be attach happily. Life has rules, obey along the rules of life, people to achieve a complete personality, only to accomplish the amount of life's pursuit. - -

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human are folk, always inevitably restricted apt the inexperienced and impulsive, ignorant and impulsive, life is taboo, namely the weakness of people ecology is the greatest enemy of male. To shirk the taboo, to overcome the weaknesses, a man will be more mature. -

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there are many people in this world can not find things to do and bitter, but there are not many hands to do something serious to do. Seriously is an outlook. Attitude is everything. If we treat everything seriously, even if in obscure turns, and will finally come to the fore. - -

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any act done in repeated several times, it becomes a habit. Good and bad habits. Good train, notwithstanding not quickly bring significant benefits, but your life will benefit. Bad habits, but only make your success is limited. Riza, in the sense of bad habits, once beneath the deep roots, people tend to this. Wasted life. Work, should cling to good train, get rid of bad habits. - -

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people can be vanquished, but can not be overthrown. Bright mind, whichever unfavorable outer elements have put out the pursuit of life and yearning for the future. In numerous cases, not someone another buffet us but we lose confidence in ourselves, off the heart like a volcano routinely silence patch of light. As long as the hearts of light, was overthrown in the premier hundred times, the Article will be a stand up, and with indomitable insistence and faith to triumph the future. - -

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most people do things without success, simply because he lacks the gallantry to do, absence the courage to work hard. Courage, slumbering in the human body, once it is awakened, will make many excellent things to. You do not build barriers or by the self-confinement of calculating, give up pursuit of the ideal of courage. - -

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in some people's eyes, he is a jewelry; in some people's eyes, he is a stone. Sometimes, people must understand that he is an mediocre stone, instead of priceless pearls. Aspirations to succeed success, the need for conspicuous chief. Capital there, the odds will work big. - -

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make choice of friends is the first thing to do before the Select friends What are the criteria? course, intent people with friends, production friends with people with alike interests, friends and knowledgeable people, people with integrity friends, friends of people with integrity. knows nought, doubts nothing. hand good friends, his entire life; hand in bad corporation, and his scourge. - -

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allegiance of friends of friends faith, is the maximum treasured annals. to Lutheran friends, the word is capitalized, friendship is pure; to belief friends, to feel the sun every day are so gorgeous, in array to understand to real life. - -

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Some people know him for a long time, but always curious; some people know him well, but never convert friends; some people do for a long time with his friends, but after base that no real understanding of each other, but some people, was first met with him, and it would know each other Xiangxi. Life was a close confidant ample, Sishi When productive, as the same, which is penetrated life, society, interaction of the punch line.

earth do not a thing but there is no talk approximately capabilities

There is no do not a thing, only people who will not work. A person will act, in the complicated context to ease the location to control life, everything good fortune, the impossible becomes likely, and eventually achieve their intention. The key is to see what method you use, what technique, what method.

who will work, work efficiency so flat, proficient to do an even faultless variety; will work for people, sending life and forever flat, tin effect magnificent success. People can not live without something, huge, small, merry, pessimistic entities bothering ... ... these And would favor to residence some of the tough asset you must study to turn to people. How, then, to query because asset it?

First, over the psychological hurdle

Since I can not - yourself, it would be righteous to ask for help, ask for help must seek chic, cozy, ask for help do not must bluff, vacant talk, but not dingy, apologizing entreat pity, as the fancy ridiculed.

Second, select the best paths and means

is immediately a remove division of fatigue, to find that person, may not be able to get things done, be sure to find out the situation, find out who can help you.

Third, have the perseverance

turn to others, not necessarily what is a matter of course, the other undaunted, apathy and even rejected all possible, you do not feel lost on this face, insulted, thus losing patience .

Fourth, to understand other people

Some people ask for things, and deem that those who are seeking some magical wand,mysticdisc, something done Chrysostom opened, above the stroke of a pen into. In fact not the case. Everyone has their own difficulties, if you can share, understand the difficulties, they will not feel too difficult to ask for things.

Fifth, the others asked not to be too high

to ask for things do not reception them also hard, be sure to what amplitude others do, or feel insufficient meaning. In other words, to ask for things to be content with how much others can do much to do, do not compel additional people to do laborious things to do. For example, to ask for things from the simplest beginning. If you set goals too high, so difficult for others, it is best to quest second; second fails, the apply another. Others, even tiny things, you have to adore

a few friends in the conversation yesterday, when we unwittingly subject comes to ask for things. Some said: I like the latter view.

we musto much frustration in real life, you must ask for help. If you are an unemployed youngster, hoping to detect a bun and work; If you are a staff membership, hoping meteoric mushroom; if you are a patient, I hope physicians can carefully for their own handling; urgently if you have the wish of to lend a sum in ... ... This is many, large and small ambition to constitute a life. Life will force you to work turn to others, and whether people can obtain the

Some people frown on that ask for help, even humiliated to sue people, they ask for harbor some presupposition that it must be servile, obsequious. In substantial fact, to help others to strike must be based on self-esteem, self-respect, self-love as a precondition, so that instead of menial seeking, seeking and not leaning. In my view, in order to successfully obtain the help of others, must follow two elementary principles. First, genuine courtesy. As the saying goes, sincerity can affect even metal and stone, courtesy, it is cozy to ask a prerequisite for success; second. To avoid the taboo. Because each person a assorted personality and life experiences, words and movements of decisive scruples, so dry-Wan not to offend. When we are asking people, the first wish of that person's habits, character, knowledge and experience and so do some observation, and then calmly go, will get abrupt results.

We sincerely are asking others, but not sure people will be able to encounter our requirements. When we refused, do not over look in the reasons. Indeed, the heart was rejected is very upset, and no one wants to know why, but if pursued to haunt each other, the reasons for non-ask not, tend to undermine the feelings of both sides. Not when you ask for, do not insist too much. Having rejected each other, there must be the reason, if too much stick to their claims, not only will make things difficult for each other, but also to their passive position. A lot of unpleasant things in life, why concern about the little things in a mere poured out? After creature refused to do Huodataiduo, open-minded.

you knowing the other party refused the psychological, may wish to, then intervened himself, simply does not matter that, in turn, to solace each other a few words, please do not mind him. The other will feel sorry, maybe the future will be very vigorous to help you!

Life, either the air and rain but likewise sunny, so not 1 needs somebody else's regret in life!